
The way people make mistakes in what they wear lately is alarming, many of them don’t even know they make mistakes, it feels cool when you don’t know but feels really sad when you are told outside by strangers that what you have on is wrong pointing out your mistakes that are obvious. How do you feel when you find yourself in a situation like this?
Your dressing tells a lot about you, everything about youĀ makes an impression. Check some of these errors out…
Ā Wrong make-up.
If your make-up is shouting, you are wearingĀ too much. Make-up is meant to enhance the face not to be the only thing we will see. TheĀ most commonĀ make-up mistake is too much blush, too muchĀ foundation, and too much eyeliner. YouāllĀ know if youāre wearing too much foundation,Ā if it looks thick and pasty. Your skin should be seen through the foundation. Remember,Ā the best look is natural and, yes, you can getĀ this with foundation. The key is to choose a
colour that matches your natural skin tone and use it sparingly.
Eyeliner is meant to make the eyelashes lookĀ thicker. To do this, put it as close to your lash
line as you can. Thick black lines of eyelinerĀ are too harsh, especially if you have a light
complexion and light hair, says the expert.
Blush should not be seen as line or blob, but rather a natural glow. Choose a shade that is
not too dark or light and blends well withĀ your natural colour.
Oversized Clothes/ Skin Tight Clothes:
Oversized clothes are definitely a big NO NO.Ā Trim, fitted clothes make you look nice evenĀ for people on the big side, fitted is different from skin-tightĀ Ā If you think you are hiding a pot belly inside a really big teeĀ shirt, you will just end up looking bigger thanĀ normal. If your body typeĀ makes it hard to find well-fitting clothes off the rack, make your tailor your best friend.
I don’t know if some guys are in a competition with their girlfriend.Ā Why the body hugging clothes?
You see some guys and you wonder how they breathe with all the skin-tight trousers andĀ body hugging tops they are wearing. Do the little man down there a favour and set it free(tongue out)… The fear of prostate cancer should drum some senses into you these guys.
Dirty, shabby and wrong shoes.Ā
Itās an area that too many guys overlook in terms of cleaning and properĀ care. A stylish man keeps his shoes clean, free of scratches and dirt. Shabby or wrong shoesĀ are noticed more than you think. TakeĀ care of your shoes by keeping them polished and in good repair. Your shoes complementĀ your outfit, so it is important to learn whichĀ footwear is appropriate for the outfit and the occasion. For example, if you work in aĀ professional environment, pumps are the bestĀ choice. Wearing loafers, sandals or mules withĀ a suit would ruin your look and yourĀ credibility instantly. Warped shoes Keep at least two pairs ofĀ dress shoes in the same color so you can letĀ one pair rest for a day from sweat andĀ stretching. Doing this prevents them fromĀ warping in unwanted ways.
Wearing the wrong colour of shoes is another very common mistake both sexes make. This is
very common especially with corporate wears andĀ do not mismatchĀ the colour of your socks. Always match your socksā colour with your trousers and not your shoes.
Wearing the wrong colour of shoes with your suit makes you look ***.
Pair a black suit with black shoes, grey suitsĀ with black or camel shoes, brown suits with
brown or camel suits and navy suits withĀ black, tan, camel or oxblood-coloured shoes make sure your combinations are brilliant and pleasant.
Not paying attention to grooming
Taking care of your hair, skin, eyebrows andĀ nails a must in good grooming. If you areĀ wearing the most fabulous sari or suit in theĀ most striking colour and have not paidĀ attention to grooming, youāve ruined yourĀ whole look.
Your hairstyle creates the first impression.Ā From your hairstyle people will assume your
status, age, intelligence etc. This doesnātĀ mean that judgments are correct; they happenĀ instinctively. Visit your hairstylist regularly,
and if you colour your hair make sure youĀ keep it maintained regularly. Since hair is so
important to an overall look, it is veryĀ important that you choose a style that suitsĀ your face shape, a colour that complementsĀ your skin, and a stylist who can assist youĀ with them.
Keep your nails well-groomed.Ā Only wear nail polish ifĀ you plan to keep your nails in excellent
condition; otherwise, donāt polish. ChippedĀ polish will ruin your look instantly.
Short sleeved shirt with a tie is a big error:Ā this is a big eyesore. Ties should always be
worn with a long-sleeved shirt. You can always roll up the sleeves when you are relaxing.
Your tie should end just above the belt buckle and make sure it is positioned well so that it
will be at the centre of the buckle. And donātĀ forget pocket squares are so the in-thing right now, make sure it matches the colour of
your tie then u will b good to go.
Ā Slave to brand names
Choosing clothing simply because it is aĀ certain brand name or dressing in brandĀ names from head-to-toe is a recipe for a fashion disaster. Just imagine wearing a label likeĀ Ed Hardy with very colourful designs; you are wearing the cap, the top and heavily chainedĀ wrangler jean? Haba!
Itās cool that youĀ love to deal in labels and the expensive stuffĀ but wearing all these things at once is not coolĀ at all. It is plain juvenile, not meant forĀ adults at all. You will look like a thug from a cheaply made Hollywood movie from the 80s.
Shop for quality and not tags.
Pairing socks with sandals: you can only doĀ this in secondary school where it is mandatory as part of your uniform. Asides that, youĀ should not be caught wearing socks withĀ sandals. If you are wearing the socks because of cold, you should wear shoes instead as theyĀ keep your feet warmer.
Overstuffing your pockets: this is for menĀ that put everything puttable inside theirĀ pockets; house keys, office keys, bulky walletsĀ filled with stash of complimentary cards,receipts, cash and ATM cards, mobile phonesĀ etc. Bulging pockets make you look bigger and unpresentable. You should get a messenger bagĀ that can carry all your necessities. If you donāt want to carry a bag, wear a blazer withĀ inner pockers. You can distribute your stuffĀ all over without disturbing your sleek look.
Showing bra straps and underwear tight.Ā
Check yourself well before you leave the house,is your bra straps showing,is your dress too low at the back that the band of your bra is showing? Is your gown or skirt too short or tight that your underwear is calling for attention? You should not wear whatever reveals your underwear. Decent dressing is respected all over the world.
You must be very careful in your choice, especially when it involves leaving the corners of your room, you never can predict who you would meet.Ā Even if you donāt fancyĀ following the fashion trend that much, save us the heartache or eye ache by avoiding these common fashion errors.
GELE
Gele is a Yoruba, Nigeria, West Africa word for a female head wrap. A “head wrap” is a long piece of cloth that you wrap and tuck on your head to create different looks. If you wrap it tight enough, the material will not come off. If it loosens you could always rewrap it. Gelescome in different fabrics such as
– Aso-OkeGele
embroidered Gele
– Net-Fabrics Gele generally known as Singele
– French lace Gelehead-tie
– ZegoGele Scarf
– Damask Gele
– Swiss Gele Scarf
Any of these above fabrics come with its own unique designs, yet look absolutely beautiful on anyĀ bride, making her stand out from the crowd.Ā Below are some steps we will be considering this week on this edition of “iT…”/ “No intimidation”Ā on Glister
You really don’t have to be intimidated by that your friend, all you have to do is to follow us every week on this edition. Check these out…
SIX STEPS TO FOLLOW TO AVOID OWAMBE INTIMIDATION OF GELE:
STEP 1: Make small folds of three at the longest edge of one part of your gele or aso-oke. You can use your lap in sharpening the folds if using scarf.
STEP 2: Using the folded ends, set your gele on your front head with the short length on your left and the long length on your right.
STEP3: Make a tie round, holding the short length with your right hand, hold tight ( get someone to
help you if you wish). Then wrap the long length round the back of the head until it gets to the back head to meet up the short length where youĀ holding it.
STEP 4: Tie the two lengths together using the edge of the long length for the tie with the short one.
STEP 5: Start building the gele shaping it anyway you want it.
STEP 6: Using both hands on the very first layer of gele in front, slightly pull the gele to the back showing steps of round wraps or layers that are flat and firm.
Join us next week for another lovely edition. Keep glistering.
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